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Friday, June 23, 2006
  Hatred
Hatred is dirty white. Very dirty infact. I say so because it is not different from pus. The fluid that is produced as a result of inflammation. Everything seems to fit well. You fall down, you fall hard and strike against something which wounds your skin and if your wound aggravates, pus is formed. You fall down, you fall hard and strike against someone which wounds your ego or desires and if the argument aggravates, hatred is formed.

It pains. Pains a lot. Just like the wound. Lightly pressing the wound, drives the life out of your body.. Similarly, lightly recalling the hate produces such anger and vengeance, resulting in nothing other than destruction and ultimately pain for both, now for you and later for the hated one.

Hate is born due to anger and what a viscous circle, it keeps producing anger, doing nothing but worsening your own mental stability and poise. People hate vengefully, they hate because the other hates them, they hate because of jealousy, they hate because of preconceived notions and sometimes, people hate just like that. And as it makes way into our system, it feeds on our hope and positive energy, worsening our condition and making us lose a lot gain, nothing.

If somebody turns out to ask me, what I hate the most, I'd say I love love and hate hate. But still the wicked minion finds space in me and I hate it more. But still it commands my senses and I hate it more. Still it ruins my mind and for that I hate it more.

Forgiveness, is the key. It is tasty. Tasty like a chocolate. Try forgiving a big mistake. It is hard to do so but the taste you get later on is worth relishing. Forgiveness is as tough as chocolate is costly and sweeter than chocolate. And! There's one more good thing.. Forgiveness won't make you fat.

Hatred, the dirty white pus, feeds on you. Let it not. I am working on forgiveness. I try to forgive everyone. Yes, forgive everyone but hate itself. Though, such things are easier said than done....
 
Comments:
LOVELY POST! but id like to point out here that you perspective, though the common one, is still one sided. your view fits well into a situation where the hater is unable to control the beats within which cause him to lash out. Been there done that. Iv boiled so long in the sea of hatred that iv practically become friendws with it. Here's another perspective, one which has helpe me sail through the hate without any harm.

when blinded by hate, it makes you do wrong things, but WHY be blinded? all we need is a split second's awareness and the visious cycle can be very well broken.

Another view is that all sorts of emotions are just manifestation of energies. hate, is a strong form. now all we need to do, is channelise it in the right direction. I know fom my expirience that iv hated someone so much, that it made me excell in so many fields, surpass my own limits and break new grounds. I never knew i was capable of that, but i got this engine running an the fuelw as hate. there was no trail of destruction. the other person was totally oblivious to what was happenin, while i became better. its really simple actually. My favorite analogy is that of nuclear fusion. Its a V-I-O-L-E-N-T form os reaction that releases huge amounts of energy. Now this energy can be destructive (hydrogen bomb), or it can be the source of life (the sun's light and heat are cuased due to the fusion going on in its cre and surface). the choice is ours. the reason we are called the most superior race isnt cause we can talk or stuff, its cz we can make our own choices based on RATIONALE!
Love your post...
 
forgive.
 
Hate is born due to anger..

Let me add to this

Anger is born when you can not do anything about IT..

and it all begins with desire..

--Try forgiving a big mistake..

Well you can forgive if mistake affects you and that is your personal choice..

What you do when lives of other is involved..
 
best regards, nice info
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